Archive for September 9th, 2009

They each had a couple of night time accidents and we had a few more sheet changes with our son, but overall a less traumatic experience that I was bracing myself for. We did the following with our kids. Try these tips out and hopefully they’ll work for you.

1. Observe the signs. If your child is waking up dry from nap or night for at least a couple of weeks that is a big clue to start potty training. There are so many reasons to ‘ignore’ or not want to ‘see’ the signs that having your spouse, close friend or in our case a pre-school teacher throw some cold water in your face can really help. I was 8 months pregnant when our son’s pre-school teacher said you MUST potty train now. I was thinking to myself “are you crazy woman?! I can barely pick myself up let alone a toddler onto a potty.” I figured I’d wait until after the baby was born. I had been picking him up from pre-school and putting on a diaper/pull-up because I didn’t want to be unnecessarily cleaning a car seat. After being sternly warned by the teacher not to do that, I ended up putting a towel down on his car seat just in case.

2. Be consistent. When you are potty training make sure to take your toddler to the potty at least every 2 to 3 hours during the day. After a few weeks you’ll start to see the time between potty visits diminish. We observed that most accidents happened if we had forgotten to take them to the potty or were afraid to take them to the potty when they were in the middle of doing fun stuff for fear of the inevitable kicking and screaming.

3. Morning and Night. As soon as they wake up (even if it’s the ***** of dawn and you’d much rather scream out loud than take them to the potty) put them on the potty. Even if they refuse to go, this will get them associating morning time with potty time and show them it’s OK to get up to go to the potty than to wet the bed. The same goes for night time. Put them on the potty right before going to bed so they create the same night time association as well.

4. Read a designated potty book. One of the things that worked really well for us with our son was identifying a potty book. I actually got this tip from Keys to Toilet Training by Meg Zwieback. Every night when we put him on the potty, we would read the same book to him. Since he was (and still is) so active, getting him to sit on the potty for any length of time was challenging. He liked reading the ‘potty book’ and because he sat longer he more often than not used the potty! This technique didn’t work so well with our daughter because she was fairly quick in going so she didn’t need to be entertained for long. Must be a girl thing (i.e., we’re less inclined to read newspapers and magazines while sitting on the toilet than guys are!)

5. Encourage and Reward. It is so important that you encourage and reward your toddler for going to the potty. You can do this with hugs, creating a chart, treats, activities, toys, etc. With our kids we used a chart that we would put smiley faces on when they went to the potty and sad faces if they had an accident. The chart gave them a visual to see how they were progressing and the act of us drawing a smiley face would make them so proud and happy! We also hugged them, gave them high 5’s, clapped, and sometimes gave them a Gerber fruit snack treat. When they went several days in a row without an accident, they would get to do something fun, get a treat, or better yet chose their own Spiderman or Dora the Explorer underwear!

Every child is different so try these tips and come up with your own that fit your unique situation. We used these tips and achieved pretty good potty-training results. Now, don’t go asking me about baby sleep tips because I’m still trying to figure those out!



By: Aruni Gunasegaram

About the Author:

The author of this article, Aruni Gunasegaram, is the President/Founder of Babble Soft, which offers web and mobile software applications that facilitate communication between caregivers by helping them to keep track of breastfeeding and bottle feedings, mom’s pumping, baby sleep patterns, diapers, immunizations and medicine doses as well as baby’s first year photo album.



School Shopping Suggestions

Hard to believe, but the new school year is almost here.  It seems like we just finished cleaning out backpacks and putting away the lunch boxes a few weeks ago.  Its almost time to head to Wal-Mart or K-Mart to pick up all the back to school goodies that they will need for the upcoming year.  

Most schools have websites that list by grade level what the students will need for the upcoming year.  Its never too early to start getting the school supplies together.  It is also never too early to start getting the school shopping for clothes and shoes done.  Those kinds of things get expensive really quick, especially if you have more than one school age child or any teenagers.  

We always start looking at the beginning of summer for backpacks because that is when the store always seems to put them on sale.  We always buy a new pair of school shoes early when we find them on sale; online is a great place to find them.  You can compare prices and styles online pretty easily, plus most places will ship them for pick-up to a retail outlet for free.  Many stores are bringing back layaway programs to make it easier for parents to get what they needed and pay for it a little at a time over the course of the summer instead of all at once.  

Many of the discount places like Wal-Mart have much better quality clothes than they used to.  Cheap can be nice when you need to get something that you don’t care will last, but just like a good pair of shoes, buying quality is always preferable.  When I was younger, buying clothes at places like K-Mart and Wal-Mart was looked down on because of the quality, or lack of quality.  These types of stores have done a better job of mixing quality products with low cost products.  

Wherever you shop and whatever you purchase, it would be a good ideas if your purchased American made products.  These products tend to me more durable, and they will also keep many men and women employed.  Another thing to do, before shopping, is to check your schools website to see what donations they are requesting from parents, whether it be a box of crayons or some hand sanitizer, whatever you can help with will be greatly appreciated.

So now it is time to keep your eyes out for sales, cause the school shopping frenzy is right around the corner!



By: Carol Ann

About the Author:

If you are trying to find a suitable summer kids camps or maybe nanny agencies because you need to go back to work, then you should take a look at the Internet articles by Carol Ann. Carol Ann writes informative articles on a variety of parenting issues and resources.



In many homes and establishments, where there are real video surveillance cameras, there are also dummy cameras installed.  Dummy cameras are often utilized to work in conjunction with fully functional surveillance equipment in order to discourage illegal or dangerous actions.  These can range from theft and shoplifting to burglary and home invasion to physical assault.  Dummy cameras are even used to discourage certain misdemeanors.  With dummy cameras around, even people who merely have intentions of playing pranks will be more wary of their behavior.  What dummy cameras do is encourage the perception security, allowing people to believe that an area is secured and that surveillance is present because of the security equipment that they see.

The role of dummy cameras on the perception of security

It may seem like a negative connotation but dummy cameras act on fear — people’s fear of being caught on camera doing something unlawful or embarrassing.  The fact that taped video evidence obtained through surveillance equipment such as video cameras may be used to prosecute someone also doesn’t help stave off that fear.  

Dummy cameras provide a visual reminder for anyone that the area where they are located is being monitored, even if it isn’t.  That visual reminder is, in most cases, quite effective in discouraging an act that may be deemed inappropriate or illegal.  It’s the equivalent of telling kids that there are chemicals mixed in the pool water that will change color if someone urinates in the water — it prevents a crime or an inappropriate act by essentially giving out the signal that someone’s watching, even if you thought no one’s looking.

Can dummy cameras really deter crime?

Although there are some groups that dismiss the efficacy of fake cameras to prevent crime, more people are convinced that they do work.  Otherwise, why would dummy cameras still be experiencing healthy sales if they have a high failure rate?  It’s the perception of security that they build on, making people believe that certain restrictions are indeed in place and that there are possible legal consequences if and when these restrictions are breached.

Advantages of dummy cameras

Dummy cameras, due to the nature of their functions, are easy to install.  Pick a good spot, put it up and it can begin working immediately.  They also do not require purchase of additional accessories such as extra cables and connections.  Because they are not equipped with lens and microchips, dummy cameras are significantly cheaper to purchase and maintain.



By: Phil Washington

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A dummy camera can do a lot to help promote and maintain the perception of security.



There’s a reason that inventing fake qualifications is advised against. Aside from the obvious ethical issues, if you’re caught, you’re in real trouble and could face sacking and a reputation of lying that will never pass. My experience of this is all from senior travel recruitment though, and it would be far worse if you were in the public eye. All the following have faced the accusation of lying on a CV to reach their celebrity position…

5. Paul McKenna – Celebrity Hypnotist

Paul McKenna, the former radio DJ and TV hypnotist now runs a self help empire with an estimated £10,000,000 is somewhat unique in this list as he was completely unaware of the fake qualification he held. He took legal action against the Mirror for their comments that the entry requirement for his doctorate at La Selle University, Louisiana, was answering the question “Do you have $2,615, sir?” and won, with the judge accepting that McKenna was unaware that the degree was a scam, and had not tried to deceive the public with his fake qualifications.

The worth of the case is questionable though, with McKenna racking up £1,500,000 legal fees for a settlement believed to be between £20,000 and £50,000 – as well as highlighting his qualifications as bogus. McKenna has since earned what he calls a “proper” doctorate from a UK business school, which will pass the scrutiny of any qualification checks.

4. Marilee Jones – Author and Former Dean of Admissions at MIT

Marilee Jones was the dean of admissions at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and co-wrote ‘Less Stress, More Success: A New Approach to Guiding Your Teen Through College Admissions and Beyond’ before it emerged that she herself had cheated the admission process in getting a job at MIT in the first place. In 2007, it became public knowledge that she had lied on her CV with fake qualifications when she first joined MIT in 1979 as an entry-level admissions officer.

When she resigned her position with a statement on the college’s website, she wrote: “I misrepresented my academic degrees when I first applied to MIT 28 years ago, and did not have the courage to correct my resume when I applied for my current job or at any time since.” It just goes to show that lying on your CV can catch you up at any time – in this case, nearly 3 decades later.

3. Robert Irvine – Celebrity Chef

It’s surprising that this British chef was better known in America than the UK, but perhaps his lies would have been easily picked up over here. After working on the hugely popular ‘Dinner Impossible’ programme on America’s Food Network, the St. Petersburg Times exposed a series of tall tales he had spread both anecdotally and by lying on his CV. Amongst the most damning was the claim he had a degree in food and nutrition from the University of Leeds, refuted by the academic establishment after a qualifications check. He also claimed he worked on the wedding cake for Princess Diana and Prince Charles – which turned out to be a massive exaggeration: “They made the cake at the school where I was.” Irvine’s involvement? “Picking fruit and things like that.”

All this came to light in late 2007, and by New Year, the Food Network had announced that they would not be renewing the contract of the chef, but would continue to show re-runs and the new series which had already been filmed.

2. Gillian McKeith – Celebrity Dietician

Gillian McKeith had a wildly popular television show in which she forced overweight people to reassess their lifestyles and diet. She also has a multi-million pound selection of health products and books, but after an expose by various websites, and a complaint to the Advertising Standards Authority, she is no longer allowed to call herself “Doctor” on any of her promotional materials, thanks to obtaining the doctorate via a correspondence course from a non-accredited American college, according to The Guardian’s Bad Science section.

1. Claire Verity – Celebrity Nanny

The celebrity nanny on ‘Bringing up Baby’ – Channel 4′s childcare programme was found to have methods 100 years out of date, no children of her own and a series of fake qualifications, following an investigation by The Times. Her controversial childcare tips included leaving babies to cry, limiting cuddling time to 10 minutes a day, and leaving babies outside to air – advice the NSPCC have stated is “outdated and potentially harmful.” Her advice that babies sleep alone in separate rooms is also said to contradict guidance on preventing cot death.

With this advice dismissed as damaging from so many sources, it’s no surprise to learn that the professional bodies she claimed to have obtained qualifications from were keen to wash their hands of her. ASET, where she claimed to have diplomas in child daycare and preschool practice said there was no trace of her in their database, Goal who supposedly provided her diploma in childcare denied any knowledge of her and her agent admitted she had not taken the postnatal depression or care of multiple baby qualifications that Channel 4 had said she had. Maternity Nurse Training – where she claimed to have certificates in maternity practice, sleep training and paediatrics stated she was never enrolled with them, and went as far as to comment that they “do not in any way endorse the methods employed by Ms Verity in her work.”

After asking her to prove her qualifications, and none forthcoming 12 weeks after the claims were made, Channel 4 announced it assumed Verity had lied on her CV and would no longer be working with her, but claimed that only one series of the show was ever planned anyway.

So for God’s sake if you insist on using fake qualifications, just make sure you don’t get famous! Lying on your CV will always catch up with you, even if the initial qualification checks are lax, whether you’re looking for travel recruitment or if you’re a world famous TV personality…



By: Gail Kenny

About the Author:
Gail Kenny is the managing director of Gail Kenny Executive Search, a headhunting recruitment agency specialising in senior travel recruitment. The site caters exclusively to talented individuals with skills and experience to succeed in the travel management, and businesses looking for such candidates.