Comments on: How do I tell my babysitter to not cut my daughter’s hair without upsetting her? http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/ The good and the bad Thu, 13 Oct 2011 23:49:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sheila http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2854 Sheila Wed, 18 Nov 2009 22:35:41 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2854 <a href=""></a> I didn't read through all of the other posts, so I'm sorry if I'm repeating one, but I would first say Thanks so much for trying to help me out and cut her hair, but she/we are trying to grow it out. she/we wants to try it with no bangs for a while. That way the lady wont get defensive or embarrased

I didn’t read through all of the other posts, so I’m sorry if I’m repeating one, but I would first say Thanks so much for trying to help me out and cut her hair, but she/we are trying to grow it out. she/we wants to try it with no bangs for a while. That way the lady wont get defensive or embarrased

]]> By: cna_from_heaven66762 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2853 cna_from_heaven66762 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:13:32 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2853 <a href=""></a> I think my first instinct would have been to politely knock this individual's head off!!! If the child isn't hers then she has no right to do that. However in her defense...is there ANY way that your daughter could have lopped some off and she was just trying to help? With that said-I'd just make it clear to her that hair cutting or trimming is OFF LIMITS!

I think my first instinct would have been to politely knock this individual’s head off!!! If the child isn’t hers then she has no right to do that.

However in her defense…is there ANY way that your daughter could have lopped some off and she was just trying to help?

With that said-I’d just make it clear to her that hair cutting or trimming is OFF LIMITS!

]]> By: mooselings http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2852 mooselings Tue, 17 Nov 2009 18:27:37 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2852 <a href=""></a> I would ask what happened without placing blame first (unless you already know for a fact that she did cut it). It is possible as one persn said that your daughter or another child cut it first and the babysitter tried to fix it so it would look better. If that was the case she should have told you what happened when your husband picked up your daughter. If she was trying to hide what happened it is time to look for a new babysitter!

I would ask what happened without placing blame first (unless you already know for a fact that she did cut it). It is possible as one persn said that your daughter or another child cut it first and the babysitter tried to fix it so it would look better. If that was the case she should have told you what happened when your husband picked up your daughter. If she was trying to hide what happened it is time to look for a new babysitter!

]]> By: southern_belle1973 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2851 southern_belle1973 Tue, 17 Nov 2009 12:30:46 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2851 <a href=""></a> Did you ask her what happened? Maybe she did it or your daughter did it, either way the babysitter shouldve offered up an explaination when you picked her up.

Did you ask her what happened? Maybe she did it or your daughter did it, either way the babysitter shouldve offered up an explaination when you picked her up.

]]> By: luvmy4boyz32 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2850 luvmy4boyz32 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:59:19 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2850 <a href=""></a> actually you should be the one who is upset. I can't believe she would do that without asking. I would tell her that you are trying to grow it out and you don't want anyone to cut it.

actually you should be the one who is upset. I can’t believe she would do that without asking.

I would tell her that you are trying to grow it out and you don’t want anyone to cut it.

]]> By: LEO rRr http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2849 LEO rRr Sun, 15 Nov 2009 07:49:04 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2849 <a href=""></a> ;-c EXPRESS or EXPLAIN it much like you did here !! Furthermore as you let her know this: Let it be known that you've decided that you do'nt want or like for things such as haircuts to take place without the parents OK !!! think of a place that you might've like to go !?! But wo'nt or now ca'nt/wo'nt until the hair is back to the way you had it !! maybe you'll have to wait til some hair grows back !?! Or to a certain length!?! again STRESS that you'd appreciate if said person had gotten your OK first!!.

;-c EXPRESS or EXPLAIN it much like you did here !! Furthermore as you let her know this: Let it be known that you’ve decided that you do’nt want or like for things such as haircuts to take place without the parents OK !!! think of a place that you might’ve like to go !?! But wo’nt or now ca’nt/wo’nt until the hair is back to the way you had it !! maybe you’ll have to wait til some hair grows back !?! Or to a certain length!?! again STRESS that you’d appreciate if said person had gotten your OK first!!.

]]> By: Lakisha 4 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2848 Lakisha 4 Fri, 13 Nov 2009 12:54:31 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2848 <a href=""></a> put something in her drink and when she passes out, shave her head balk like KOJAK

put something in her drink and when she passes out, shave her head balk like KOJAK

]]> By: jstme http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2847 jstme Tue, 10 Nov 2009 13:08:16 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2847 <a href=""></a> tell her politely.. it may take u awhile to not be upest .. so dont do it right away.. take her to a professional NOW.. u have a week to adjust..

tell her politely.. it may take u awhile to not be upest .. so dont do it right away.. take her to a professional NOW.. u have a week to adjust..

]]> By: Evelyn quintanar essabilla emily http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2846 Evelyn quintanar essabilla emily Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:51:17 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2846 <a href=""></a> Well, that is your child so she don't have a right to cut your child's hair.Tell her straight that you don't like that she will cut the hair of your daughter and just tell her in a calm way I think she will undertsand you, good luck.

Well, that is your child so she don’t have a right to cut your child’s hair.Tell her straight that you don’t like that she will cut the hair of your daughter and just tell her in a calm way I think she will undertsand you, good luck.

]]> By: ccareybfd_14 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/comment-page-1/#comment-2845 ccareybfd_14 Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:13:52 +0000 http://www.nannystories.net/2009/10/how-do-i-tell-my-babysitter-to-not-cut-my-daughters-hair-without-upsetting-her/#comment-2845 <a href=""></a> OMG!!! You have to talk to her....First ask why she did it....It could be your daughter started this or another child...and she repaired what was left???? If she thinks it just would have looked better this way....you may need to sit down with this lady ( i would guess this is more of a family kind of lady to you) and explain that you appreciate her opinion, but would like to make those type of decisions yourself. I am sure this lady will understand the predicament your in. If this lady gets mad at you it is time to consider other arrangments for childcare.....But really take the time to find out the whole story before going crazy.... I am sure it doesnt look that bad...and be very careful about making a deal out of how much you HATE bangs...your daughter now has them and mabee she likes them....be careful not to make her feel bad about herself....or the way she looks.

OMG!!!
You have to talk to her….First ask why she did it….It could be your daughter started this or another child…and she repaired what was left????

If she thinks it just would have looked better this way….you may need to sit down with this lady ( i would guess this is more of a family kind of lady to you) and explain that you appreciate her opinion, but would like to make those type of decisions yourself. I am sure this lady will understand the predicament your in.

If this lady gets mad at you it is time to consider other arrangments for childcare…..But really take the time to find out the whole story before going crazy….

I am sure it doesnt look that bad…and be very careful about making a deal out of how much you HATE bangs…your daughter now has them and mabee she likes them….be careful not to make her feel bad about herself….or the way she looks.

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