Archive for November, 2009

amy asked:


m 18, it was supposed to be my senior year but im pregnant and im high risk so ive opted for my ged.
well ive been so busy that i didnt get it done in time. my baby will have heart problems and im due in 5 weeks. I wasnt going to do day care because ive worked in one and dont trust um. especially with my child who can turn blue at any min. and would need an air lift to a hospital 3 hours away for surgery. but now i feel obligated to choose daycare. we cant even afford day care. i cant work, my boyfriend only makes 300- 800 a week and day care is like 100 a week if not more let alone paying for a nanny or at home babysitter. we dont have any family who can take care of my child. i dont know whether to push off getting my GED or do daycare. the GED classes are mon- fri 8am – 2pm.
Im trying to get it done now but they may not let me in the program until after i have the baby because my due dates so close.

im really behind in credits as well and going back to highschool is not an option.

Tips For Babysitters



Babysitting is one of the first real jobs that many people have. It’s a great way to become skilled with dealing with children while earning your first living. Of course a good babysitter needs to keep many things in mind. Children are not always the easiest bunch to deal with. It takes a very special person to be a great babysitter. Dedication and patience are virtues that will serve you well when it comes to dealing with bad behaviour and any of the other things that kids can throw at you.

It’s a good idea to take some kind of babysitter training or program to prepare you for caring for children. Some schools offer babysitting programs for teen girls that may be seeking to get into it. If this doesn’t apply to you, check around your town for other types of related programs. These courses are great for learning why kids do some of the things they do when left with a babysitter and how to deal with it. They also provide plenty of safety tips.

If you really want to gain some valuable hands on experience with kids, try getting a job working at a daycare facility first. A group setting might be an easier way to get used to it before striking out on your own in a private setting. Some people prefer to work in a daycare because it is a large group of kids that is shared with other adult daycare workers. It certainly gives you some great credentials as far as babysitting goes.

It’s extremely beneficial for all babysitters to get some valid training in CPR and First Aid. Knowing something like CPR can save lives and when it comes to a child in need, there is never too much that you can know. Information like this is vital and takes only a day or two to learn with a certified instructor. It’s a skill that will last you a life time and you will be glad you took the time to learn it.

When babysitting children, it’s absolutely essential to follow all rules and regulations laid out by the parents. No matter how much kids beg or plead, you must take care to follow whatever steps and rules were left for you. It is never ok to disregard a parental request. To do so could result in the loss of your job as well as other potential jobs if word gets out. Do your best to do exactly as asked.

Take care not to spoil the children. Even if you are tempted to give them ice cream before bed or allow them to stay up late, don’t give in. This can work against you in the long run when the kids start to expect this form of treatment all the time. The last thing that you want is for your charges to stop taking you seriously and expect things constantly. Taking care of kids is not the easiest job but it does come with its own rewards.

By: Veronica Scott

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Babies and Barristers?

Chloe R asked:


Hi all,

I am 25yrs old cuurently studying to become a Barrister or Solicitor.I should hopefully qualify in 2013 if all goes to plan….however, my husband (30yrs old) and i have recently been discussing how we would love to have children as we both come from large families.

I was wondering how do female Solicitors and Barristers juggle working life with 2 or more children? Does evryone have a nanny? Do firms/chambers give the opportunity to work part time or from home?

I don’t want to be one of those mothers who misses out on ther childs first words,first steps etc but know that in todays world my partners income just isnt enough to support us all.

I am worrying that when i qualify and plan to have a baby i am going to have to choose over family or career…is this still the case in the 21st Century? Is it possible?

Please help…should i consider an alternative career?

NB: from UK

Amanda S asked:


I am asking this simply find out what others think. I respect what other people do and it has nothing to do with me. I am just curious what anyone else thinks. I think about this a lot because I have a 5 yr old and find it very hard to work full-time and still feel like I am doing all that I can for her. So I choose to work part-time. I dont know to me, I think you have children you should take care of them and not nanny’s, baby-sitters or day cares. Thats just MY opinion for what works for me and my family. I geuss I feel this way because my mom worked more than she should have growing up and I always felt alone and very disconnected from her and she wasn’t there for me when I needed her (it hurt no matter how important or trivial the matter was). I dont wish that on my daughter for anything. So what do you guys think?
Well, I didnt mean for single moms and people who arent well off enough. I meant more (and I should have been more clear) towards people who are able to stay home and what not and choose not to. Once again I dont mean to insult, just curious about others opinions :D