Archive for February 11th, 2010



Identity theft can be one of the most stressful experiences you can ever have and falling victim to ID theft is becoming more and more common today. Although there are certain situations that are out of your control which can lead to identity theft, there are numerous steps you can take that will lower your risk of becoming an identity theft victim.

One of the easiest steps you can take to prevent identity theft is to obtain a copy of your free credit report every year. Due to the changes to the Fair Credit Reporting Act each major national consumer reporting bureau is required to provide you a free credit report once a year.

When you request your free credit report choose to have your credit report printout contain only the last four digits of your social security number. This will help prevent anyone from obtaining your whole social security number should they get a hold of your report.

Another step to preventing identity theft is to keep all of your personal documents safely stored in your home. All personal documents should be stored within a locked container such as a safe or file cabinet. This is especially important if you employ anyone at your home such as a babysitter or maid.

Password protecting your credit card and bank accounts with a password that is not easily linked to you is also important for preventing identity theft. One password that you should refrain from using is your mother’s maiden name. Other poor choices are your telephone number, anniversary or birthday. Many credit card and bank account will use your mother’s maiden name as a default password, however you should ask to choose a different password that is more secure.

One of the most common causes of identity theft is from your trash. Make sure to use a shredder when you are disposing of old paperwork, confidential documents or mail. Paper shredders have become very inexpensive and are one of the best devices for preventing identity theft. They are the easiest way that you can help prevent someone from digging through your trash and finding personal information.

Finally, when mailing anything that contains personal information take the mail directly to the post office or a postal mail box or to the post office. This is extremely important if your outgoing mail box is not in a locked or secure.

Following these simple steps can greatly decrease your odds of becoming an identity theft victim. Identity theft become a very large problem and should not be taken lightly. Start protecting yourself today.

By: Kurt Howard

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Learn simple and easy ways to protect yourself from becoming an identity theft victim.
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According to a report by Runzheimer International in 2005, the average babysitter in the United States earns $6.04 per hour. In New York City, the average babysitter earns $11.08 per hour. The rates assume that the babysitter is a teenager and is looking after just 1 child. There are a few additional factors to consider when deciding how much you need to pay the babysitter.

Pay the Babysitter More Than Average:

1. What kind of area do you live in?

If you live in a urban area expect to pay more than if you’re lived in a suburban or rural area.

2. How old is the babysitter?

With age comes maturity, a greater sense of responsibility, and a better sense of what to do in emergencies. Expect to pay an extra $.50/hr for ages 16-18, $1/hr for 18-21, and $2 for 22+.

3. How much experience does the babysitter have?

Add around $.50/hr for every year of experience.

4. How many children need to be babysat?

If the babysitter needs to look after more than 1 child, add $1/hr per kid. The more kids you have, the more work it is for the babysitter and the more you should pay her.

5. Do you expect the babysitter to do chores?

If you want the babysitter to do the dishes, tidy up, or run some errands, add around $2/hr. This is usually a very cost-effective option and worth the additional expense.

6. Did the babysitter come through on short notice?

Consider paying $1/hr more.

7. Are you planning on coming home late (after 11PM)?

If so, add around $2/hr.

By: Michael Gugel

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For a free babysitter rate calculator, visit http://www.new-york-babysitters.com/

Runzheimer International Babysitter rate study:
http://www.runzheimer.com/Web/Publications/MR/MR-2006-04-GMS.htm



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Step-Parent – A Really Tough Job



Talk about stuck in the middle. A step-parent seems to have equal responsibility and so very little rights. And, truthfully, that is probably accurate. The major role in any blended family is the biological parent. The step-parent must stand alongside the birth parent, participate in all aspects of the family and yet they have very little say, at least directly to the children. It is definitely a tough position, but if done correctly, you will be amazed at the strength of a blended family.

Blended families are becoming a common factor in society today. Regardless of all the reference books out there, a very high percent of divorce is prevalent in blended families. Look at it from a logical perspective, the two adults fell in love, the kids didn’t. The children already have two primary adults in their lives that they love. They didn’t ask for their parent’s divorce and they certainly didn’t ask for a step-parent. It probably took some maneuvering to establish two new households with new rules after the divorce. Now, along comes someone else and a new set of rules.

First and foremost, take a deep breath. Try not to sweat the small stuff and by all means, the spouses need to talk… CONSTANTLY! Although the new step-parent should not take a strong, active role at the beginning of forming the family, their feelings and opinions should be heard and respected by the birth parent. If the adults differ, resolution should be a compromise and done behind closed doors. At no time should the children see the adults bickering over the children.

Throughout life, children as well as adults, adapt to a variety of rules. Rules vary from baseball, football, school, home, playground, etc. Rules can vary between households and between co-parents. Rules can also easily vary between parent and step-parent, given time.

Although it may feel degrading, try starting out like a babysitter. You enforce the rules that the biological parent establishes. Start by being present during an instructional moment. Showing that you both stand together helps mold the future. Co-parenting is essential in establishing the relationship between the children and a step-parent. However, you cannot push yourself on the children. Start slow. Be present but silent, in the beginning.

When appropriate, volunteer to stay with the children while your spouse runs errands. In their absence, enforce the rules that the biological parent established. Be gentle in your words and make sure the positive interactions outnumber the negative by ten-fold.

Remind the children that you are there for them and that you realize you are not their parent. You are there to be their friend and trusted adult but remain respectful of their parents.

Children adapt to change and will grow to love and respect the step-parent but it will take an enormous amount of patience and love. Choose to be a positive influence in their lives. At first they will test many boundaries, including the strength of your marriage. Remain the adult and stay above the invitation to engage in negative behavior. Set the example of the behavior you are hoping to get from them. Be kind, loving and nurturing without crossing the boundaries. The time will come where the family will blend and peace will descend upon the new family.

By: Chris Lowrey

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Chris Lowrey

Author and Editor of Family Time Charm

A truly unique family magazine. Family Time Charm is absolutely designed for the entire family.

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Are you wondering how much to your babysitter should be paid to watch your children? You’re hardly alone. As parents struggle find great childcare, it is hard to know what is a good amount to pay for him or her.

There are a number of factors which will go into this decision. These include your location, how experienced the sitter (or prospective sitter) is and how many children they will be tending to.

Recent surveys have shown the hourly rates paid to babysitters range between $5 and $15. To find the going rate in your neighborhood, just ask around and find what your neighbors are paying their babysitter.

One you know what the average rate is in your area, talk to the sitter about their expectations in regards to pay before taking them on; ask him or her what they normally charge and use it as a starting point for negotiations. (Be careful not to pay too little if someone is new to childcare and doesn’t know the going rate. Once they find out that you are under-paying them, they may find other kids to watch instead.)

If you decide to use a babysitter matchmaking service, sitters will typically post their experience level as well as their expected pay rate. You will then know just what the babysitter is asking for before you even meet them.

Remember that if you find a babysitter whose services you are happy with, you should pay them well, no matter what pay rate you originally came to an agreement on.

Keep in mind that a good babysitter can be very hard to find; so you may want to pay an exceptional sitter more than the going rate in your neighborhood. You can then ensure that the sitter will view your requests as a priority and you will have a good chance of being able to hire them when you really need a sitter.

By: Beth Howland

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Beth Howland is a reviewer of parenting products like Sittercity

If you need help finding the right sitter for your family, visit http://www.SittercityReview.com for more information.