When you are looking for the right babysitter, it is not enough that she is perfect in terms of salary, experience, and says all the right things. It is also important that she is a right fit for the kids. The only way to find this out is after her first babysitting visit with them.

Ask your children the most basic question: “Did you like the babysitter?” Older kids are more likely to answer with an indifferent, “She’s okay. Will do,” while younger kids may gush on and on about them if they really do like her. Ask them to elaborate. If all they have are complaints, or if they exhibit vehement dislike, it may be time to change your babysitter.

Ask them about what happened during the visit. Did they play any games? What sort of activities did they do together? If they give you a list of activities that are harmless or constructive, the babysitter is a good one. Them playing alone while the babysitter watched does not reflect brilliantly on the babysitter, but it is, at least, a good indication that the babysitter was paying attention and making sure that the child did not harm himself. But if they tell you that the babysitter was on the phone, watching TV, or not even in the room with them, that is a negative indicator. If you find out that they engaged them in harmful or dangerous activities, do not hire the babysitter again.

If you find a great deal of bumps, cuts, or bruises in your child that were not there before the babysitter came to visit, ask your child where they came from. Little accidents are not uncommon in children, especially those who tend to be a little overactive. But too many injuries indicate that a babysitter was negligent. If your children suddenly seem afraid when you ask that question, be suspicious of abuse.

Talking to your children after she leaves is a crucial part of the experience, and will allow you to evaluate if she is, indeed, the great babysitter she seems to be.

By: Rashel Dan

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