It was supposed to be the perfect night out: you, your husband, a romantic dinner and a bottle of fine red wine. But as you are putting the finishes touches on your makeup, the phone rings and it is the babysitter calling out sick fifteen minutes before she is due to arrive. You frantically call the other three sitters you know, but they are already booked for the evening. With a sigh of disappointment, you change into sweats and order a large pizza for the family to share.
Alternative to babysittersNo parent wants to make plans for that rare night on the town and have the babysitter cancel at the last minute. For a dependable source of child care, you might consider taking advantage of parents’ night out events hosted in your local area. These events are typically sponsored by trusted organizations in your local community such as:
Churches Schools YMCAs Extracurricular organizations such as dance studios, martial art centers, camps, etc.
The organizations announce in advance the date, times and cost for providing the child care services. You drop your children off at the organization’s location rather than having a babysitter come to your private home. Members of the organization watch your children so you can go out to dinner with your spouse, catch up on errands such as grocery shopping or enjoy some peace and quiet to yourself.
Benefits for you and your childrenThe fees for parents’ night out are much more economical than paying a traditional babysitter. At parents’ night out, you pay per child per hour or a lump sum per child for the whole evening. To further reduce your costs, some organizations provide a discount for two or more children.
This can add up to a savings of 50% or more than what you would pay a babysitter. For example, in Los Angeles, the going rate for a sitter is about $15.00 per hour for one child. However, many organizations charge only $7.00 per hour for each child at parents’ night out; a savings of $8.00 per hour!
You can also feel secure in knowing that your children are being watched by child care professionals or employees of the organization; people you already trust with your children. Instead of one individual with your children, there are multiple staff members on site to watch all children.
Activities are usually guided by the staff members and can range from art projects to group games to story time. Occasionally, age appropriate movies will be shown for all children to enjoy. And your kids will love getting to play with friends and schoolmates.
Tips to get the most out of itThere are some things you should keep in mind before you bring your children to parents’ night out:
Due to the group nature of it, a parents’ night out may be a better child care option for older children. A child may not get individual attention and this could be especially stressful for younger children. Try to pick up your kids before their bed time. Children may become over stimulated when they are involved in group activities. They may have a hard time winding down at home; causing them to miss their bed time and possibly oversleep the next morning. Make sure to feed your children dinner before you drop them off and pack a light snack for them. Most organizations do not provide dinner or snacks. It’s best to check in advance if you are not sure. Do not bring kids when they have homework unless the organization provides a quiet spot just for this activity. Note in advance when organizations you belong to have scheduled their events. Most organizations hold them once a month or once per quarter and you should take advantage of them when you can.
As you can see, a parents’ night out is an excellent alternative to hiring a babysitter and will give you peace of mind to enjoy yourself on those rare evenings with no kids.
By: Amy Blakeslee About the Author:
Amy Blakeslee is the CEO and Founder of
http://www.parentainment.com and the mother of two young daughters.
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