It is so easy to fall into the trap of letting the television babysit the kids, but this is not a great idea. Watching television isn’t all bad. In fact, there are many great educational programs for kids and adults alike. But, too much of anything can be bad for you. Children often become mesmerized from watching television and will sit for hours in front of it. Usually, it isn’t educational programming that they are watching for hours on end, but even when it is, the child is still stationary and getting zero exercise! With obesity on the rise, limiting time spent is front of the TV is very important.
When you babysit for a new family, be sure to ask about television restrictions. Some parents may say they do not want their children watching TV at all while a sitter is on duty. This could be because the parents feel that if they are paying you to babysit their children, then you shouldn’t be letting the television do it. Some parents may allow their children to watch only certain shows or television stations, while still others don’t mind how much their kids watch. Even in a home where the parents don’t mind extended TV viewing, you should try to avoid it by offering to play games with the children, read to them, or go for a walk. After all, you are getting paid to care for the children, not to sit around doing nothing until the parents get home. If the children are allowed to watch a few shows and reject your offer to play, read, or go for a walk, then watch the program with them and discuss what’s happening to make it interactive.
After the program has ended, do some activities associated with it. For instance, if the show talked about the number eight, then at snack time have a snack associated with the number eight. Try a piece of celery with eight drops of peanut butter on it (as long as the children don’t have peanut allergies), or eight small slices of fruit. You could try yogurt with eight blueberries sprinkled on top, or two graham crackers separated into four sections each. A great activity would be to get out the blocks and put different shaped blocks in groups of eight and see which group can make the tallest tower. Cut a sheet of paper into 26 pieces and write a different letter of the alphabet on each piece. Put all the pieces of paper in a hat and have the child pick out eight. See how many words you can make with those eight letters. Try something with a little more motion. Bounce a ball eight times then toss it to a friend. Use sidewalk chalk and draw hopscotch boxes, then play.
Hop on one foot eight times then switch to the other. If the television show that the kids were watching involves two friends that had an argument or dispute of some type, you could have the children come up with other solutions to their problem. Have the children draw the friends making up or doing something fun together. Another idea is to have them put on a play recreating the TV show, and act out what happened and how it was resolved, or how they think it should have been resolved. Anything you can do to avoid having the TV be just a box that the children stare at for hours is helpful. If the children you are caring for are allowed to watch television while you’re on duty, try to keep it to a minimum. Create activities for the kids to do when the show is over and try to avoid having them sit around “mesmerized” for hours. Televisions don’t make great babysitters, great people do!
By: Lisa McLellan
About the Author:
As a childcare expert, I have over 30 years experience in the babysitting/child care business. I have owned and operated a family daycare and worked both privately and for an agency as a professional babysitter. Now, after hiring babysitters for my own children I know exactly what makes a good babysitter and what makes a GREAT babysitter! Please visit my site http://www.babysittingworld.com/BabysittersandNannies.html which has information on babysitting for both parents and babysitters alike









