Some states guidelines indicate that it is acceptable for children as young as 11 to babysit other children, but are they really responsible enough to care properly for your children? Here are the top five guidelines to determine if a babysitter is mature enough to handle the job.

1. The babysitter must have no emotional, medical, or behavioral problems which affect his or her ability to make good decisions. Don’t be afraid to ask the question.

2. This may sound obvious, but the new sitter must be comfortable being left alone with other children. This should not just be assumed. It makes some children very nervous.

3. The sitter must know how to access a parent or other responsible adult at all times. Make sure that they are comfortable calling for help if they need it.

4. The sitter must demonstrate that he or she knows what to do in case of an emergency. Ask them questions about what they would do in the case of a medical emergency, fire or other situation.

5. The child must be able to effectively exercise appropriate authority over your children. It is not always the best choice to have a 12 year old supervising a 10 year old and his younger siblings or for a brand new 11 year old babysitter to watch a newborn baby.

If in doubt, even if it means looking longer for a new sitter using online services like Sittercity or looking to an older adult to help, most parents feel it is better to be safe than sorry.

By: Beth Howland

About the Author:
Beth Howland is a reviewer of parenting products like Sittercity.

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How to Hire a Babysitter



Hiring a babysitter often becomes essential at times, especially if you have to attend to an important task outside the house. However, many parents are not entirely comfortable with the idea of leaving their child in the hands of a complete stranger. It is important that the babysitter you hire should be capable enough of handling different possible situations in your absence.

Here are some tips you should keep in mind before hiring a babysitter:

o Avoid hiring babysitters younger than thirteen years of age. Young children typically require older babysitters, who tend to have more experience and maturity in handling infants.

o Hire babysitters who are knowledgeable about first aid and CPR.

o Always ask for and validate references. Check the experience of the babysitter. What age groups did the person work with? How much time?

o Babysitters with professional training in nursing or childcare are most preferable.

o Conduct an interview or talk to your babysitter to check for sense of responsibility, temperament, understanding of children, common sense, ability to understand and follow instructions, etc.

o Check if your baby is comfortable with the babysitter.

o Of course, cost is important. Compare the rates you are paying to what your friends and people in the neighborhood pay.

After you hire the babysitter:

o Write a checklist for the babysitter. Specify your baby’s schedule and detail important things related to your baby’s feeding, bathing, or napping requirements.

o Explain the rules of the house clearly. For example, no smoking and drinking alcohol in the house.

o Leave emergency phone numbers such as the police, medical, and fire departments. Of course, leave a number where the sitter can contact you anytime.

o Mention any allergies or special requirements of your child.

o Show the babysitter around your home, and explain the use of all escape routes or emergency fire exits.

o Watch your child for signs such as change in behaviour or bruise marks that could indicate instances of abuse.

By: P. Banas

About the Author:
Provide recommendations on child development, baby sleep, baby products for dads and new dads. Choose a babysitter based on the needs of your child and their age.