☼H*L*N☼ asked:


So I’m going back to college in the fall, and I have to choose between sending my son (16 months) to day care or getting a baby sitter, I would love him to go to day care, that way he could play with other kids, but I’m just worried about the whole day care thing, I’m worried he will stay sick, other kids will hit him etc…. Or I could try to find a babysitter… but the problem is I don’t know if I trust someone I don’t know to come in my house and watch my son, I do have a friend of mine who said she would do it, and come to my house, but she also works full time so I don’t know how that would work out. Really it would be wonderful to have her watch him, but I feel like I should send him to day care for the social part… so what do you think should I send him? Also anyone who has children in day care feel free to share your experiences.

MJF asked:


I am in my thirties and have chosen in life not to have children. I’m happy with that decision and enjoy the life I have made for myself. It seems however, that as I’m the only one in my family of siblings and cousins that doesn’t have children, I have automatically become the family babysitter. I don’t get asked if Im busy, I just get phone calls from young kids saying I’m staying over this weekend/tonight/tomorrow at any time of the week, never seeming to have any parents available for me to talk to. Then, they just turn up when they want with the kids, leave them with me and rarely give me a time that they are coming to collect them. If they do, they almost never return on time.
I’m getting tired of being expected to reschedule my weekends and nights at the drop of the hat for people who don’t even have the manners to ask if Im busy. They clearly get the kids to ring as I can’t really explain to a young primary aged child that I’m busy or won’t be free at certain times etc.
Just because I’m not a mother, it seems they think I automatically have all this free time (I work full time, am studying the equivalent of full time hours for a degree and run a private animal shelter) and that looking after children is good for me.
Well, it’s just making me angry. Since when is being a parent the only valid or valuable life choice a person can make? Why is my time/life worth so little, just because I chose not to procreate??
I love these kids, but wouldn’t it be basic manners to ask if Im free before just dumping them on me? I don’t even get a thankyou!
Grr!

How do I find a good babysitter?

Carrie asked:


I’m a SAHM and I’d love to find a babysitter for about 2-3 times per month so my hubby and I could go out. We don’t live near family so that’s not possible. And my friends offer but they never let me reciprocate and watch their kids. It’s not that they won’t let me but they have family here who watch their kids. I just don’t know how to find good, reliable, and safe babysitters. I wonder how those sitter websites work. I’m just freaked out by finding a sitter online. Not sure what to do. Thanks for any advice :)

ngfhorn asked:


My now ex-husband has not contacted his son for over 2 weeks- including not calling on Christmas or New Years. I know as long as I keep my son happy (he’s 3 now) that it won’t affect him too much- just the occasional Where’s Dada? which I say he’s at his house (thousands of miles from us). I don’t talk bad about his dad to him or in front of him. I am so angry at him though! I left messages asking for him to just call his son- I have no desire to talk to him. He hasn’t returned any of my messages asking why he is doing this and his family has done the same- just totally written us off. The disgusting part is I had him and his family stay in my house the weekend before Christmas for my son’s birthday. They drove 12 hours to seeour son. They were respectful as was I. I even took them to dinner before they left. I do know that the girlfriend (our former babysitter who he chose over his family) went to meet his family over Christmas which is why I assume he is being the way he is. I am just so angry which bugs me because I never hold grudges- part of the reason why I let them stay in my house rather than a hotel! When I left him when he had his affair 6 months ago- before I left I still asked if he would be willing to try to fix things if we went to marriage counseling- again me trying to do what was right for our son. He said he wanted to be with the girlfriend. And now here we are with no communication. What am I supposed to do when he crawls out of his cave to finally call his son? Who knows how long it might be until he wakes up. Am I supposed to act like none of his actions bother me?? Why would anyone choose love over their children?

Ashley asked:


I am 13 years old babysitter!! I am really good with kids. I can work Weekends after 2pm. I can work after school at 5 except on Thursdays and Wednesdays! My name is Ashley Bambrough. If you have a myspace and want to contact me on there mine is; myspace.com/kaptured_hart_

I’m really friendly and love kids! My brother has 4 of his own and I used to baby sit them! I charge 2 dollars a hour per kid!

I don’t have a phone I could use because I don’t live at home. But you can get a hold of me my via email!

Hope you choose me :]

Or uchihahotie13@yahoo.com

Barbara C asked:


I have five kids and would love a maid/cook so I could spend more time with my kids… of course a nanny would make those trips to the doctor or grocery store that much easier!

annie07 asked:


I want to ask these parents I have known for 2 years if I could baby-sit their kid. I would say, I would love to baby-sit for you if you ever need time to go out or shopping. Then I would give them my phone number if they said yes. I hope that they do call me b/c the parents told me that he talks about me all the time at my daycare. Do you think that they would call me instead of another babysitter? I know that you don’t know but if this little boy talks about me then I would think that I would be chosen over another babysitter. What do you think? :)
I’m almost 21 years old (to answer your question)

Careers in Childcare



If you love children, and are looking for a job, here are a few things to consider before sending out your resume. You can also find out about opportunities that you get in the childcare field.

Is a job in the childcare field suited to you?

Maybe you’re worried about working with children because you know that you have a short-temper. Maybe you are impatient. Maybe you have a criminal record. These are all signs that you should seek a career other than in childcare. Children are our greatest assets, and we want to nurture them and foster the best in them. If you want to help children grow into responsible adults, then consider a career in childcare. Just be aware that even if you love children a lot, there will be times when you get tired of them. This happens to the best of us, and it is best just to take a step back and remind yourself why you got into this job in the first place.

Starting Steps to a career in Childcare

If you are still in high school or college and are thinking about working in childcare, then get as much experience as you can. The best way to do this is to start with babysitting experience. From there, you can move on to other childcare experiences that will prepare you for a job in the field. For instance, you could teach Sunday school at church. You can also volunteer as a classroom helper or daycare assistant to find out how you want to interact with children. Many different things will look good on your resume in childcare. To perfect your resume, visit http://www.theguideto-resumes.com

The benefits of Camp

Many childcare workers have benefited from the experience of working at a summer camp. It could be an arts camp, an equestrian camp, a camp for differently-abled kids, or a camp for anyone, but camp experience makes you think about working with children in different ways. At camp, you will learn why putting children first makes everyone’s experience more fun. You can also learn fun games, songs, riddles, and tricks that you will always have on hand to amuse children.

Nannying

If you are looking for a full-time childcare position, consider nannying. There are two types of nannies, live-in and live-out. Live-in nannies have a room in the house where they work. They also typically have a car to drive the children around. In order to get a job as a nanny, you have to show previous childcare experience, as outlined above. Oftentimes nannies do cooking and cleaning for the house where they work as well. Make sure that your duties are carefully outlined before you begin. Nannies typically get two days off a week, though that is not always on the weekends.

Travel Abroad as an Au Pair

If it seems like nannying is the thing for you, consider becoming an au pair. An au pair is a worker who travels to a country abroad (often in the UK or Europe) to work as a nanny. In exchange for a private room and an allowance, the au pair will do household chores for the family, including childcare, cooking, and cleaning. There are many agencies that can help you set up your trip. These often last for one year or two year contracts.

If you have children yourself

If you have children, sometimes working in childcare seems only natural. If you can bring your children with you to work (say if you work at a daycare or camp) then you don’t have to worry about childcare yourself. Always ask about if and how you can integrate your child into the program which you are applying for.

Rewards

Childcare can ultimately be a very rewarding field. You become a role model for a child or for many children. There are many different areas in the childcare field, from after-school programs to nannying to co-ordinating sports leagues. Take into account all of your strengths, and you can find the perfect childcare job.

By: Shannon Columbo

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Nursery nurse jobs can be quite rewarding, especially for those who have a natural love for children. The years a child usually spends in the nursery are the years when the child is playful but not hard to take care of. However, those years are also very crucial to a child’s growth and development. As rewarding as nursery nurse jobs may be, they can also be heavy-laden with responsibilities.

First of all, a nursery nurse jobs is primarily about caring for the children while their parents are unable to do so for one reason or another. The responsibility to care for children exceeds the basic act of watching over them. Caring for the children, within the context of a nursery nurse job, also involved helping them eat and go to the toilet, cleaning up after them, and guiding their every move. It also includes ensuring the child’s safety while he engages in various activities while in the childcare center. In some cases, a nursery nurse is also responsible to care for children who are physically challenged and give guidance to children who are emotionally unstable. The role of a nursery nurse is not far from the role of a parent when it comes to caring for the children.

Aside from caring for the children, a nursery nurse job also entails educating the children. Since the years that children spend in nurseries are the years in which they are most curious and susceptible to things around them, they are very sensitive to learning. Nursery nurses should be take advantage of this stage using simple steps, such as talking to them and engaging them in conversations wherein they will learn a lot. The role of a nursery nurse, however, is different from that of a teacher’s. A nursery nurse should do more than just teach or instruct. Since the kids are younger than school age, there is an extra challenge to engage them into learning through educational activities that will still contain a semblance of play.

If there is time for education, there should also be time dedicated for carefree play. This is probably the only way to keep the children crying for their moms. Keep them entertained. A nursery nurse should be ready to think of individual and group play activities. Group activities are also good for the children’s interaction skills.

In addition, to further develop a kid’s growth, nursery nurses are also responsible to guide their holistic growth. This requires them to interact closely with the children, to get to know the children’s personalities better. And since there will be more than one playful kid in the nursery, the nurse should be able to maintain discipline and teach the kids the proper way to behave. It is also the nurse’s job to observe the children’s behaviors to detect any problems. If there is anything to be concerned about, the nursery nurse is also responsible for discussing it with the parents. In the same way, if a child exhibits good behavior, the nurse should also encourage him to keep it up.

Finally, nursery nurse jobs are also associated with some administrative tasks such as filing children’s records.

Despite the overwhelming weight of these responsibilities, a lot of people are now going into child care and education and finding it more rewarding than challenging. A nursery nurse job is good to have. Nursery nurses will find that working with children can actually be fun, amusing, and can even ease the pressure off the job.

By: Beverly Maniago

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Nursery Nurse Jobs may be challenging, but it is also highly rewarding. To find Nursery Jobs in your place, go to http://www.nurseryjobsonly.com/





Things get complicated after you bring a new baby home. Whatever your life consisted of before has to be trading for changing diapers, washing bottles, and worrying nonstop about the health and growth of your new baby. You stop listening to your own thoughts and start listening to baby monitors. Every aspect of your life changes during confinement.

This is supposed to be a super busy time of your life where you are praying for just an hour of solid sleep and the time to take a shower without the baby crying in the next room. For some women that is the way confinement is, but not for every woman. That may not be the way you are experiencing confinement and there should be no guilt or apologies for it.

Rather than being overwhelmed with responsibility you may be feeling a little bored. You may miss the adventure and spontaneous fun that you enjoyed routinely before getting pregnant. You may be thirsting for some of that adventure and spark in your life right now.

The baby is wonderful and you couldn’t love them more, but you need something more. You need something to do during the confinement period. What could that possibly be?

First, you have to adjust your thinking. You aren’t interested in finding just something to do. You are looking for something to do with your children, not by yourself. You want to bring some excitement into the health without disrupting their schedule or being irresponsible. How do you balance that during confinement?

Bring Some Relief

The first thing you have to do if you are feeling bored in confinement is bring a nanny into the picture. You need someone who can help you look after the baby so you have a little more free time to spend with yourself.

Nannies are often thought of as being there to care for the baby and make sure a new mother gets adequate rest to recover from the delivery of the baby. Yet, many nannies will take on more responsibilities and free up some time for a new mother if she wants to spend more time doing things for herself.

Just having someone there to talk to and to help care for the baby will help you find other things to do besides just changing diapers and washing bottles all day long.

Safe Activity

Next, think of things that you used to do before giving birth that you could safely do during confinement. Preferably, find things that could include your baby for bonding time.

For instance, if you like to scrapbook or have been thinking that a detailed baby scrapbook would be nice to have, that would be a good option for confinement. You don’t have to physically get active to do this and you will have something very valuable to show for your time at the end of confinement.

You can also start working new hobbies into your life that include the baby. What about photography? Take pictures of the baby and go online to learn new techniques for better and better images.

You can also paint, draw, or write short stories. As you are cleared for more physical activity you can start working to lose the baby weight. You may want to learn to cook healthier foods so your ****** milk is healthier or take the baby on long walks through every park close to your home.

By: Charles Cheow

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